probably one of the most beautiful love stories i have ever seen. the love of these two women span over 42 years. everything about them and their love and commitment to each other is honest and heartfelt. they are also very funny. their love for dancing (and each other) never faltered. Their secret? Never let joy escape. Oh, and "keep it hot!" i recommend this documentary to everyone. not only to prove the point of how stupid it is we can't get married but also because it is such an amazing story. without getting too political, it makes you wonder why people so against gay marriage disconnect themselves from stories like this one; that there are people who are committed to each other for decades and why can't they have the same rights and protections as straight people. they might actually be an example to straight relationships when statistically, divorce rates are at what, 50%? i think those people should all be made to watch this and understand we are just like them: we love and we form strong commitments to each other and there is nothing wrong or sick about it. anyway, everyone should see this movie. i loved it.
on a side note, i also loved being in the (packed) theater with so many older lesbians. this made me really happy. i know, some might think this is cheesy but i'm admitting it. it makes my heart warm being around the older generations of lesbians. there's so much history there and community. it's kinda hard to explain the feeling other than it feels good. then as we were walking out of the theater there was an old couple who have been together for 45 years! someone asked how long they have known each other and they said 50 years but they have been with each other for 45 years. wow, mindblowing. i wanted to stay and ask them questions and hear them talk about themselves a little longer but the crowd was moving me towards the door and Jamie and Jenny were walking ahead of me. ah well. i love hearing things like that, together for that long. especially through the decades they have lived through. it makes me look at my own life and not take so much for granted. at least i can be open about my relationships (if i live in the right place, which i do). i also have an accepting family, which many people still struggle with. i also enjoy the rights and protections fought for by their generations. i know, this is getting more political but this movie affected me and i just want to say thank you to all of those old lezzers. thank you!
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